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Inaugural Tears: 2005 vs. Now


JANUARY 20, 2009 3:12PM

Inaugural Tears: 2005 vs. Now

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While watching President Barack Obama’s Inauguration today, I cried. During George W. Bush’s 2005 Inauguration, I cried too.  Even though the occasions were the same, the nature of the tears I shed was very different.
                                                                                                    
At the time of the 2005 Presidential Inauguration, I was smack dab in the middle of the worst depression I’d ever known.  John Kerry, who was not an ideal choice for president but the best choice we had, had lost the 2004 election and the country was doomed to four more years of Bush politics-as-usual.  The war would not be ending any time soon because Bush stubbornly refused to admit that it was a mistake.  My family’s personal economy was spiraling downward into its own recession in spite of Bush’s assurances that the foundations of our economy were strong.  Civil liberties and human rights and personal privacy were being eroded even more with each passing day. The helplessness and hopelessness that I’d felt were overwhelming and paralyzing.  I knew that if my voice and the voices of others had not been heard in the prior four years, we certainly were not going to be heard now. The realization of being stuck on the outside of an arrogant government I did not choose and which did not represent me made it difficult to even want to get out of bed each day.
 
In the “Bible belt” area in which I live, people went on as if everything was fine.  In their eyes, having a “good Christian man” in the Whitehouse who did not support abortion was of primary importance.  If taking life at conception is wrong, I’d ask, how can taking life once it’s been born be any better?  How can you shun abortion but embrace war?  Only a few close friends and family understood what I meant.  The others were only concerned at keeping the terrorists away, even if it meant supporting an unjust war.  Their fear was a comforting blanket to which they chose to cling even if it meant clinging to lies and hate and deception.
 
I did not watch the 2005 Presidential Inauguration but I cried all the way through it anyway.  My tears were painful ones, full of defeat and disgrace. How did we, the people of the United States of America, allow this to happen? Why did we vote the same man back in as President when we knew he was unwilling to listen to the people he had sworn to represent?  How could we possibly endure four more years of war and world alienation? 
 
Circumstances often need to hit the absolute bottom before change can happen.  Humans are a cozy sort, content to bustle around within their own comfortable lives as long as everything is moving along fairly well.  We’re very adept at putting our blinders on to block out injustice when it’s happening to others.  In order for real change to happen, injustice had to happen to us. Nothing like a stock market crash to get everyone’s attention and keep it.  At least when everything fell, the American people were able to rise up and make the choice for change.
 
Here we are in 2009, having just inaugurated our 44th President in a ceremony marked with unprecedented joy.  A record number of people watched as the nation’s highest office enjoyed a seismic shift in leadership. Sharing in the hope and jubilance of this event with my fellow citizens makes me feel united with them in a way I’d never felt before.
 
As I watched President Obama speak during his Inaugural Address, my tears were not painful ones this time but instead were tears of hope and relief and optimism.  When he spoke of knowing that we will meet our challenges, and that we are “a friend of each nation and every man, woman, and child who seeks a future of peace and dignity,” I felt restored and powerful and grateful. I’m proud to cry tears of joy today as an American, at this point in our history, when there is so very much to look forward to. 
 
The last eight years have felt as if we’d all been living in a darkened room, with no sunlight permitted to peek inside.  Today, with this inauguration, President Obama has torn off the shades, kicked down the walls, dispelled the demons, and invited us all to join him, outside, in the warmth and sunshine of a Brand New Day.   

Comments

Brand New Day (thinking of Sting here...)
Yeah, it was a very dark time with a long time coming to an end. So glad to see that bugger buzz off to Texas.
Unbelievable day...
Oh, I hear you! I was in utter despair that Monkey-Mind had weaseled a second term. And in utter despair that so many people would VOTE for that war monger. I felt like I was in opposition to my whole country turning into a stupid, right wing place, and that we were finished. After the Abu Ghraib photos, HOW could anyone give Bush Four More Years? It was incomprehensible and tragic, to me.

Today, I was drinking champagne at nine a.m. on a Tuesday in January to salute our new president with a heart full of joy.

HOOORAY! If you're interested, here is my newest blog stating my feelings today: http://open.salon.com/content.php?cid=87871 (Okay, I admit it, I 'm a blog whore.)
Lisa, you said it all, "proud to cry tears of joy today as an American." We will see the light now and I hope the following years will be years of economic recovery and optimism and peace for this great nation.
Lisa, I was a cynic and uninvolved in anything political until I heard Barack in his amazing 2004 speech at the convention. I was mesmerized and became a follower. The main is such a genius, such a writer and I became involved. I did my thing in this red area, the first time since RFK, I had actively supported anyone. I watched this morning in bed, and cried at sight of the millions gathered. Will this man speak up for my guys, my issues, things I have worked on for nearly 38 years? I think he will, I pray he will and I will do what I can to be more active. People do not give this man the credit his writing deserves, he creates most of these amazing speeches by himself. Tears of hope-rather than Tears of Despair-a good start.
Lisa,

You said it, girlfriend.

We are lucky; we have OS to post these feelings to, because we might just bust with joy otherwise.
I seriously wondered if this country would live to see this day. I was so paranoid I believed they would find some rule in Cheney's briefcase allowing them o stay in power due to some national emergency. Lot of happy tears today.
Thanks, Lisa. I keep making this same comment everywhere, but I can’t help it: It’s such a good day.
Well said, sweetie pie. Everyone I knew - my entire workplace, was deeply depressed after the 2004 election...so I get it.

And I am with you here too.

yay, you.
We must be living in a parallel existence, Lisa. I don't see how I could have stated the way I felt then compared to now any better. Thanks for doing the heavy lifting for me. Kudos, Kudos, Kudos!
O'Steph - Yes, an unbelievable, wonderful day!

Shiral - Champagne! I wish I'd thought of that! I'll check out your blog later tonight when I get home.

Pamela - I think we're on the brink of something really great.

Spud - I think he will do his best to represent all of us, even the people who don't like him. That will be the true measure of a great President.
m.a.h - I am overjoyed to have OS and all of my friends here with whom to share these feelings. The 2005 Inauguration was a lonely one indeed.

Jimmy - I know what you mean. I don't want to be labeled as paranoid or anything, but I kept thinking that Bush or Cheney would find a way to stay in power. It feels like a 50-lb weight is lifted off my shoulders knowing that they're gone.

David - Yes, it IS a good day! Doesn't the sky even look brighter?

Persephone - I think there were a lot of us who were depressed. It feels good to be happy again. Yay US!

Michael - I love you, you know that, right? :)
I know. I remember when Bush won again, I felt like I was in a really bad nightmare. The first time it was horrible. But the second, it seemed like the end of the world. Today, as I sat and watched the faces in the crowd, listened to that amazing music, the poem, the weird and wonderful benediction that made everyone laugh--and Obama's speech, his speech, I thought: Maybe, just maybe we can pull ourselves up by the proverbial bootstraps and get our shit together and get this thing done. Just maybe. I felt truly hopeful and a bit shamed. As if I weren't personally doing enough. And I hope everyone else feels the same way and we all figure out how to put it all back together but BETTER and more FAIR.
Wait! Why weren't you there? What about the essay? Those jerks!
Lisa - For the first time, I honestly believe that not only will we fix this mess, but we'll fix it even better than it was. WE will be better. Hello again to striving for excellence, rather than settling for mediocrity.
I previously commented that today I felt like I had been released from prison after serving eight years for a crime I didn't commit.
Jess - I was had. My essay was brilliant....brilliant, I tell you.

Tom - You nailed it. That's the best description I've heard so far. Here's to freedom!
ok, now you guys have me wondering if Justice Roberts didn't know the Oath because he never planned to have to actually use it

Lisa - dancing in the sunshine, too! I know how you feel.
Once again...I'm with Tom on this one.
I hope, Lisa, that the important emotional and even spiritual uplift that this day brings will more than replace the hurt you felt in 2005. This is a very real and personal post and I salute you for sharing it.

Monte
Lisa (lpsrocks) - I wonder if it was the awkwardness of having to swear in a man who didn't want him confirmed that caused Roberts' problems.

LandP - Yes! Today is infinitely better than yesterday!

gracie - I agree. Tom has the best description I've ever heard for the past 8 years.

Monte - If the past 8 years were necessary in order for this day to happen, which is very possible, then it was all worth it. I think we're about to embark on a new "golden" period for America and I'm so grateful.
Umbrella - I'm sure that your teacher is right and I'm going to hold on to this moment as an example. It's funny how we need to get to the OTHER side of a situation before we realize the value in it.
Lisa,

Yeah. Tears of joy, for sure.

My sister, who lives in Tokyo, is constantly being stopped on the street by strangers saying "Yes we can!" and "Obama!"

Who'da thunk it? The whole world (pretty much) is rejoicing with us.

Finally, a smart guy.
Mari - I love hearing how the rest of the world is reacting to Obama. It makes me feel so connected with the rest of humanity.

About "smart" - it's bound to get us farther than "arrogant" ever did.
Those were some sad days. And maybe what hurt the most was I lost faith in the American people -- I mean, "Fool me twice . . " But maybe the true spirit of the American people was just asleep, and now it's waking up (a rude awakening, to be sure). I'm so impressed with the way Obama is reaching out to all. Let's hope we can stay awake, work together, and not turn against each other.
Faith - I like your analogy of an awakening. Rude or not, staying asleep wasn't getting us anywhere. Thank you!
Lisa, Everything you said is so true. It's hard to think about the 2004 election. I remember driving to school, listening to Kerry's concession speech and weeping in despair and frustration. I turned off to a large extent. I didn't know how to be a part of this country anymore, and I was a little bit too fond of those joke maps of "New Canada" that showed all the blue states fleeing this country.

Obama's election, his words, and his actions in just these first few days of his presidency have given me so much hope and joy, I barely know what to do with it. It has inspired me to be better and do better because I really do believe that the Brand New Day is here!
Jacey - I think you're right. The Bush years allowed apathy to seep into our daily lives. We really didn't feel that anyone was listening, so why bother? Hopefully those days are over and never to be repeated.

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