I’m late to the 101-Words party. I’m such a groupie, though, that after reading and enjoying everyone else’s fabulous pieces, I just had to give it a try. Here’s my offering:
I cursed the results of the amnio test. With two boys already, I didn’t need a third. This child, my last, was supposed to be a girl.
At birth, you nearly left us before arriving, the cord wrapped twice around your neck. Spirits of ancestral women accompanied my strength, delivering you safe, whole, and alive into the world.
I named you Evan, meaning “warrior.” You had to fight to be here.
My sweet rebel, you are my loveliest gift, my greatest hope, and my most brilliant joy. Two boys, though wonderful, weren’t enough. My heart needed you to be in it.
Comments
On the bright side, you remain the favorite female in your family surrounded males who loves you! Maybe your family won't be able to stand another woman in a family... lol! Go for the fourth... and hope you get what you wished for...
MzEll - Thank you for the kind words. I hope your boy feels better soon.
station_next - I love that all of your kids think they are your favorite! Mine ask me, like kids do, but I give them the same, boring "I love you all equally". Your responses are much more imaginative, and I dare think, makes them all feel like they know the truth.
Donna - Unfortunately, it is too late for that girl. Hubby has been fixed and I am too old. I can hope for a granddaughter, though!
My girl was born with the cord wrapped twice around her neck and once around her shoulder. Apgar of 0 to 1 but here and unharmed by her difficult beginning and my complete joy.
Man, oh, man, if we get into our birth stories...
In your case, the Rolling Stones line applies, "You don't always get what you want, but if you try sometimes, you just might find, you get what you need." Congratulations on having four wonderful men! Paws up.
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Bill - Thank you. It was a name we'd considered, but after his birth, it felt perfect.
odetteroulette - I'm sorry for the morning tears. I do appreciate you taking the time to read my words.
Sally - Thank you for your kind words. Children are gifts, aren't they?
MB - I'm sure you've long given up on me, but I'm sorry that I missed your comment. :(
hugs, me - Wow, thank you! What a lovely compliment. You made my day.
Lunchlady - Thank you! And who is the darling baby in your photo? So cute!
dianaani - Such kind words. Thank you! I really appreciate you finding this piece and taking time to leave such a nice comment.